There is little conversation about masturbation, whether due to embarrassment or because it is still a topic treated as taboo by society1. But the fact is that many people practice it to satisfy themselves sexually and learn more about their own bodies, even if often in secret.
With masturbation during pregnancy it is no different! It will bring the same pleasure or, who knows, even more, since a pregnant woman’s body is buzzing with elevated hormones, which can increase arousal.
What is Masturbation?
Masturbation is the practice of touching the genitals to feel sexual pleasure. The intimate region consists of thousands of nerve endings that contribute to arousal, and sensitivity during pregnancy can increase desire for some women, with it even being common to reach a first orgasm through solo touch masturbation. Therefore, yes, a pregnant woman can orgasm and be happy!
Exploring the intimate area with your fingers is the first and main step for anyone who has never practiced masturbation and intends to do so during pregnancy. Introducing fingers should be done gently to avoid the risk of injury, and it is important for women to be especially careful with their nails.
If masturbation is performed by a partner, the same precautions mentioned above should be taken, and of course, make the most of every second of this moment. Sexuality during pregnancy still faces some prejudice2, since uninformed people believe it to be risky for the baby or think the baby will feel all the movements and sensations. But that’s not the case at all, and making the most of this moment together will bring a couple closer, intensifying the pleasure.
What Can Be Used During Masturbation
To help with this experience, it is advisable to use some sort of lubricant. Whether water-based or not, one of the best-known is KY. A tip for a very suitable lubricant gel that also helps control vaginal pH, preventing infections, is FamiGel. You can learn more about it here .
In addition to hands, pregnant women can also use objects and sex toys, you see?.
Can Pregnant Women Use Vibrators?
Vibrators and stimulating gels are fetishes for many women and couples, but some caution is needed to use them safely. Whenever silicone toys are used, it’s important to wash them very thoroughly and, if possible, sterilize them properly or use condoms.
Silicone dildos can be boiled without issues (as long as there are no electric parts for batteries) and are the best for efficient cleaning since they lack pores that collect dirt. It’s recommended to clean them with antibacterial soaps containing nonoxynol-9, or at least soap and warm water, to avoid the risk of infection. Masturbation during pregnancy is very healthy!
Who Can Practice Masturbation During Pregnancy?
To masturbate during pregnancy, there must be no restrictions, just as with having sex. This is because there may be contraindications for some women due to the risk that uterine contractions caused by orgasm could bring to the pregnancy.
If there is any bleeding or risk of premature labor during pregnancy, the pregnant woman should refrain3. The ideal is for the woman to be healthy and have a low-risk pregnancy for practicing masturbation or sex during pregnancy.
Is Oral Sex Allowed During Pregnancy?
Yes! And just like masturbation, it can become even better due to the increased bodily sensitivity in the intimate area. Make love a lot during pregnancy to make up for the days of abstinence that will come soon. I must remind you that sex during pregnancy will breathe new life into your relationship and your husband will find you sexier than ever! Forget the extra pounds and enjoy the increased breasts, heightened libido, and dive into pleasurable sex as you’ve never had or will have in your life, all thanks to those friendly hormones!
And what if I don’t feel like masturbating or having sex?
Your partner will have to understand. While many women become extremely sexual during pregnancy, others completely lose interest and should respect this decrease in libido. Usually, desire returns as soon as childbirth is over and, after the period of abstinence, you can get back to enjoying yourself with health and, of course, lots of pleasure!
Also see: Sex and Pregnancy – No Taboo and No Fears
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