This is a desire that comes from deep within a woman’s soul. The dream of becoming a mother comes from the heart, from the soul! But what happens when this dream doesn’t come true the way we expected? When motherhood lives in your heart, but it doesn’t happen, keeping you from giving all the love you have inside you to a child?

What woman trying to conceive has never caught herself lovingly looking at a baby outfit or admiring her friends’ newborns? The desire and dream of becoming a mother can come up suddenly. It may arise before a woman even realizes it! I, for example, have always had a huge desire for motherhood, the dream of being a mother was very clear in my life. I knew I would be a mother, but I didn’t know how or when. When we are young, we can idealize the situation, and it doesn’t always happen the way we would like.

A woman who wants to be a mother does not dream of achieving motherhood through great difficulty. She dreams of simple motherhood, won after marrying the man of her dreams, through the tenderness of an act of love. The problem is when this dream of motherhood is interrupted by the harsh reality of failed attempts to get pregnant. For some women, just passing by their husband’s underwear is enough to become pregnant, while for others it takes years and years. Test after test to figure out what could be wrong with fertility. If the issue is yours, it’s much simpler, but what if it’s your partner’s? How do you make him understand the need for treatment, that we need him to be treated so the dream of becoming a mother can come true?

Not all men understand this desire, and sometimes it takes years to convince them to seek treatment. Time is cruel to women, though they may not realize that the years are unforgiving! The older a woman is, the more complicated her fertility becomes. Despite advances in medicine, the dream of becoming a mother can become a long wait for those who wish to carry a baby in their own womb. Many women end up postponing this stage of life, seeking financial stability or only meeting their great love later in life. That’s why taking care so you can realize the dream of being a mother more calmly is essential.

I Want to Be a Mother, Will I Be Able to?

This always crosses the mind of a woman who tries for some time without success. But it’s important for this woman longing for motherhood to know that besides waiting for the blessing, she should keep her physical exams up to date. Couples who have been trying for more than a year without success should keep their exams—especially the partner’s—current! Moreover, the psychological factor should be taken very much into consideration. Who said anxiety doesn’t get in the way? Having a healthy mind can help a lot when it comes to making the dream of motherhood come true. Being a mother is above all about preparing yourself psychologically for whatever may come. Even before pregnancy, remember that a cool head, free from negative thoughts and fears, can make a big difference so that the miracle of life happens. Anxiety, depression, frustration, and bitterness may try to enter your life, but don’t let them! Keep strong

The dream of becoming a mother is something that comes from the soul, from within the heart…

in your heart to keep your mind steady so your wish to become a mother is fulfilled as quickly and naturally as possible. Just having intercourse is enough to get pregnant, right? Wrong! Your body needs a change, so quit every habit that could harm you and take better care of yourself with nutrition and exercise.

But what if I can’t get pregnant? What’s the point in preparing so much if I can’t conceive? The world was not made from just one person. It’s important to remember there are many children in the world looking for someone to give them that love you have saved in your heart. A mother’s affection is unconditional and, whether the same blood or not, it will be the same. Expand your horizons! Look at the world around you, and maybe you’ll find the love you long to feel in another person, just as beloved and cherished as if they had come from your own body.

Motherhood is a state of mind; dreaming of being a mother is nearly unanimous, but we can make a difference. Don’t let the hardships of this dream slowly consume you and destroy the most beautiful dream a woman, a couple, can have in life! Stay calm and cherish this dream while it hasn’t yet become reality…

See also: I Want to Get Pregnant at the Speed of Light!

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