This has never happened before… The famous phrase so well-known to justify male impotence in that moment. What experienced woman in sexual relations has never been in such an embarrassing situation and, of course, didn’t know how to react.
Imagine for a man who grew up with a macho upbringing where a man can never fail? It is certainly a very embarrassing situation for both, even for couples who have been married for many years—when male impotence appears, it’s a warning sign for the couple. Male impotence can appear suddenly or gradually over time.
Do you know how an erection happens? The male sexual organ is full of tunnels, like a honeycomb, filled with internal passages, called the corpora cavernosa. With sexual arousal or hormonal stimulation, the corpora cavernosa fill with blood and then the erection occurs.
The problem is when these corpora cavernosa are not completely flooded with blood—the erection may be incomplete or partial (half-mast), even if the man wants to be fully erect.
If there is sexual arousal but the erection is not sufficient for effective penetration on several occasions, it is advised to see a doctor to diagnose what may be preventing a full erection.
The Causes of Male Impotence
The causes can be varied, but we can say that in 90% of cases it is a physiological or organic problem, and the other 10% are psychological. The pathologies that can lead to male impotence are, for the most part, related to dietary habits and also the lifestyle of the man.
The psychological causes of male impotence are related to everyday stress, anxiety, problems at work, with debts, and even the pressure of wanting to be the greatest lover in bed.
The anxiety to perform like Don Juan can make the body work against that man, resulting in a partial erection or even none at all. Pressure from the woman in these cases can make the problem worse; under pressure, men tend to get more nervous and then the erection will not happen—after all, who likes to be pressured?
The physical causes of male impotence can range from a problem with blood entering the corpus cavernosum of the penis to systemic and complex diseases such as vascular conditions.
For this diagnosis, there is no one better than a urologist. He is certainly qualified to investigate the causes and recommend treatment. The use of drugs, prescription medications, and a man’s lifestyle can also contribute and may lead to early male impotence.
Drug use, smoking, poor diet, weight gain, and a sedentary lifestyle are all important factors to consider in cases of sexual impotence in young men. Frequently consuming large amounts of alcohol can also cause sexual impotence. Men who drink excessively can become impotent while still young.
Incidentally, male impotence can also come with a drop in hormones. Andropause is to men as menopause is to women. With a significant drop in testosterone, impotence can occur.
To help in these cases of andropause, hormone replacement medications are prescribed to help men regain their erections. However, one must be aware of the problem and not expect perfect sexual performance.
If all treatments do not work, the last resort is the implantation of prostheses, which are performed by plastic surgeons or urologists—but of course, only as a last option.
Ladies, knowing how to handle your partner at these times is essential. You should take it naturally and not put too much pressure on your partner. An erection is just one form of sex—if you are facing this type of problem, use your imagination and try to make your partner comfortable. Who knows, things might resolve themselves? Patience, love, and affection.
Men, don’t be ashamed to seek help. The best thing to do in these cases is to see a doctor, get tests, and seek treatment. Most cases of impotence are easy to resolve; we need to get rid of the mentality that admitting such a common issue these days will take away masculinity. We all have problems and must give them proper attention and treatment. Down with prejudice—live a full and satisfying sex life.
Important Tip: To increase pleasure during sexual intercourse, the use of lubricating gels that mimic the woman’s natural fluids, such as FamiGel, can be used.
See also: Lack of Sexual Desire – What Now for Those Trying to Conceive?
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