Well, this is a question that not just moms ask themselves, but dads too! As the belly grows during pregnancy, common doubts arise about whether having sex will actually hurt the baby inside the mother’s belly. The good news is NO, having sexual relations will not hurt the baby in any way! Because of the position of the cervix, it is not possible to reach the baby during sex. In addition, the baby is well protected by the abdominal and uterine muscles, which makes sex even safer. 
Many women, due to a hormonal increase during pregnancy, also end up experiencing more sexual desire, and this can be a great opportunity to seize the moment and strengthen the couple’s intimacy even more. Some specialists agree that sex is actually good during pregnancy. What needs to be considered are the positions that are most comfortable for the woman and that don’t put pressure on her belly. Some of these positions are:
- woman on top: here, the abdomen is not pressed and the woman controls the movements.
- man from behind: in this position, the woman is on her knees and the man is behind. The woman can use pillows to support her belly and breasts, making the position even more comfortable.
- side by side: both lie on their sides, and the man is behind the woman, like cuddling to sleep. This can be a super comfortable position as the weight is distributed between the two.
Only in some cases is it not recommended to have sex, as it can lead to the induction of a preterm labor. The most common situations are:
- history or risk of miscarriage;
- amniotic sac leaking fluid;
- placenta previa;
- vaginal bleeding;
- intense cramping;
- if the specialist identifies a risk of premature birth.
That’s why frequent medical follow-up is important to identify any risks. Besides that, sex is totally allowed! Ideally, the couple should find the position that is most comfortable and brings the most pleasure possible. Of course, as the pregnancy progresses, the belly gets bigger and new positions will need to be tried. But then it’s just a matter of experimenting with other positions that provide comfort and pleasure! And if you still have doubts or fears about sexual relations, talk about it with your partner. This way, both can stay in tune and reach an agreement so that intimacy keeps flourishing even during pregnancy.
